I am not a psychologist, psychiatrist, counselor, teacher or football star. I am not one that enjoys others’ pain, I don’t like mistakes, I don’t find gain from others’ needs of my help. I’m NOT perfect, I’m NOT able to JUDGE anything, I am NOT God. What I am – is human. Simply and completely human. I have a gift – because of the things in my life that I chose to grasp instead of sweep away – to connect with others. I love that people who may have never talked with someone before about a “secret” find they can talk with me. The reason being is that I don’t keep those kinds of secrets. I pour them out to the world for all to see. My mistakes, my blunders, my successes, my strength and my weakness – all made me become who I am. Shame heals no one.
I am now opening up my “advice” column. Again – I can only give you what has worked for me, from wisdom that I have asked for from all the things in life. If you only give me a partial problem…my answer will only be geared toward what I know. I can’t fix your life – no one can…however maybe your road can be turned from shame, pain, or “crazy” to one that branches out like a tree with roots that are deep and fruit that can feed others in their weakness.
This isn’t about politics or religion – just issues – life issues. If any post is hateful, rude, vulgar it will be immediately deleted and never posted. I will not argue or give anyone the chance to argue here. All posts have to be approved before they are seen. You can remain anonymous… I will never post your name – just the issue and my answer.
So have at it…ask me anything…my advice may not be perfect…but I promise it will be real…